Are you thinking about leaving your current relationship? We know that this is probably a tough decision for you or else you wouldn’t be reading this article. Relationships can be tricky because they have their ups and downs, but if you’re considering leaving then something is fundamentally going wrong that either needs to be fixed, or you need to let the whole thing go. Down below, we’re going to be taking a look at some of the signs that it’s time to leave your current relationship, so keep reading if you’re interested in learning more.
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No Trust
Trust is the most important thing that a relationship can have. If there is no trust between you and your partner, what are you even doing together? It’s pointless because you cannot live your life constantly wondering what the other person is doing, if they are seeing someone else and so on. This is not the foundation of a healthy and loving relationship.
It’s true to say that there are cases where trust has been broken and then built back up, and if you are in the process of doing that then great. Love that for you. But, you have to be sure that you can build it back up, and that there is willingness to trust again on both sides.
A Toxic Relationship
If you are in a toxic relationship, it’s time to say goodbye. The fact that you have realized this means that it has gotten so bad that it is immediately obvious to you now which in itself is a massive red flag. But again, we know that this can be tough when you have a bond with this person. Rightly or wrongly, it’s hard to leave toxic relationships, but you have gotta find the strength because you are worth so much more than that.
If you are looking for some inspiration for what love should look like when it’s healthy then you might want to look at bible verses about love and marriage. Or, you can look at non-religious texts and quotes about this, it’s up to you. The point is, toxic relationships are a no no, no matter what.
Nothing To Salvage
Is there really anything left to salvage? You can hold on fondly to your memories of your time together without wanting to create more if that’s what you are worried about. Sometimes we’re fighting for something we don’t even want anymore, and that’s a waste of our time. Think really hard, and determine if there’s anything left to salvage from here, or if it’s best to let the ruins go.
Hopefully, you have found this article helpful, and now see some of the signs that it’s time to leave your current relationship. We know that it’s not always easy because you still have a lot of love for the person standing in front of you, but that’s not enough of a reason to stay. There is so much more needed than just love to make a relationship work, and if you don’t have them then you’re doomed to fail anyway. We wish you the very best of luck, and hope that you make the right choice for you going forward.
