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Everyone Needs a Confidence Boost

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Love is in the air, can’t you feel it, self-love that is. Just as everyone wants an arms trophy in life, so do you deserve to be that special someone that others adore and admire. Here are some tips for helping you to love yourself and boost your self-confidence:

  • Stick to what you’re good at
  • Remember all those times you couldn’t stop laughing
  • Try something new, don’t be afraid of change
  • Recite mantras, and remind yourself of everything you are
  • Learn something new, expand your horizons
  • Pursue a hobby that makes you feel good
  • Use your senses, listen to empowering music you like

Sometimes we need a confidence boost whether that’s being liked by a special someone, getting a compliment at work, wearing a fun outfit and getting positive looks, or being admired by others for what you do have in life. Think about what you have already achieved in life, how far you have come, and believe in yourself again. Whether its getting to next milestone in life, working on a relationship, or simply working on yourself, these are all stepping stones to finding our better and true self, live life with purpose. We are all destined to be happy people, fulfilled. 

Be consistent and goal set and focus on what you want in life for yourself, and stop thinking about what you are not, eventually we all have to stop beating ourselves up in life, to get to the good stuff again, so what are you waiting for! It’s the negative thoughts that are keeping you from reaching your goals in life, stop doubting yourself, and be in action. Do things that you love to do, and find your passions in life. We all have the potential to improve, its all a matter of starting again, starting over, or moving on to the next best thing for you in life. Find yourself.

Start working on your self-esteem, that’s important. When you do things that you love to do, this in turn makes you feel good about yourself, and overtime it all adds up to a healthier you, one that is more stable and self-assured. It’s in criticism and negative feedback that “stunts [your] psychological self-growth.” So keep it moving. Substitute self-criticism for self-compassion. Find meaning in your experiences, and love yourself anyways, accept that we are only human, and practice compassion when you are feeling overly critical, and skip the judgments. Treat others as you wish to be treated and go from there. And most of all be kind to yourself. I was told in therapy that “you only get one earth suit” and “you only get a certain amount of energy points each day,” you get to choose how you live this life, do your best!

Value yourself. Be honest with yourself, and don’t be afraid to tackle the difficult subjects about life that are keeping you from thinking positive thoughts about yourself and others. You can change the way you think, and things don’t have to remain the same. We are all a work in progress. How you feel about yourself matters. Don’t sell yourself short in life, settling for what you think you deserve, don’t punish yourself or waste time trying to get even with anyone in life who has made you feel bad about yourself. Turn inward looking for answers in life when you are feeling lost, rather than search around looking for answers. Most of the time the answer to your problems requires subtle recognition of issues, and changing your course of thinking along the way. You can do this, there are no “I can’ts,” believe in yourself!

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